The first thing I tell the dad is that I want him to ignore the camera and focus on his family. Once that pressure is off the entire mood changes. I give him compliments and encouragement, rather than directions, and I’ve also learned a few dos and don’ts to make sure we have a great time. Most dads are surprised by how easy, enjoyable and fun the whole experience is! He just might want to do it again! ;)

• Don’t book a session on game-day. If your man is big into sports, make sure there isn’t a conflict.

• Don’t choose a location that will have difficult parking, lots of traffic on the way, or that needs hiking a mile to get to. Keep it simple and stress-free.

• Do make sure everyone has eaten beforehand. Even dads get hangry.

• Do bring something that they can do with the kids like playing ball together, reading a book, looking for bugs…

• Don’t ask everyone to look at the camera. I prefer if your family engages with one another instead of looking at me. At least in the beginning while we’re warming up.

• Do give extra love, affection, and compliments. Some people feel a little shy about this, but if one person starts, it gives the other person permission to do the same.